By Chris Seiter. Often most of my personal coaching clients are left reeling and confused. If it makes you feel a little better, everyone going through a breakup has these exact same thoughts. Often when faced with an emotional situation like a breakup human beings have this tendency to romanticize the past. Exes who tend to romanticize the past tend to think back fondly on the peaks of their relationships.
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She recently had a breakup with her boyfriend. She text again later with our duplex info and I responded shortly. Idk what to do. Idk what to respond to her apology, or if I should at all because it kind of seems like she just wants confirmation to move on and what she did was ok.
We dated for 2. So my ex and I were in a fight and in the heat of the moment he broke up with me and disrespected me in front of my neighbors and family members. I was so shocked and confused.
Two days later he knocked on my door to return my hydro flask, then he asked me if I still want to be with him. I told him no and he walked away with his head down. He later text me he is so sorry that he will never stop loving me and hating himself for what he did. I told him I forgive him and take care. I blocked him. How does the no contact play into affect in my situation? I read this after our situation happened so now I am confused.
Hi Heidi, the no contact rule should start the day after you sent him those texts. And stick to it for 30 days.
Then reach out after that. Hi, my fiancee and I were together 3. Lived together for one year, had a dog together. Was supposed to get married this year. We both had a very stressful year last year and we both lost ourselves in the process and became down and sad towards the end of the year as we were isolated from friends and family.
Aside from the stress we have never broken up before, no cheating etc. I am the best partner he has ever had, so he says and I am the most caring loyal loving partner. I lived in his country which is the other side of the world to mine and was happy to settle there for the rest of my life. Since the hardships, he has found it very hard to deal with, has developed a physical rash, and is seeing a therapist.
I am a tough cookie and deal with hardships better than him and sometimes have been a little too tough. Because of this he has ended the relationship and said that we both need to go and be whole again, he feels that he cannot be the partner he wants to be.
The next women didn't compare.
It kind of popped out of the blue for me and I am devastated. So because of this I had to sell my little business and leave the country.
He has blocked me on everything and refuses to speak to me after I was pleading With him not to do this and we could just have a break or something. We were best friends and had a great relationship up until very recently. Since I left he got angry at me for taking the engagement ring as has said he will never speak to me again. I just want him and our relationship back. Hi Phoebe so I would spend some time in No Contact and then reach out to him after 30 days minimum 45 if you need to work on your Holy Trinity.
Then because you are now in different countries be sure to read the information about how to get an ex back long distance. You are going to need social media to show him what he has lost by not being with you.
Aug 21, I f*cked up that relationship up, not a day goes by that I don't regret it. - /u/SantasDead. He knows the timing just wasn't right. I knew at the time, but I had a whole bunch of issues that she. Yes Of course. He is now married and has three kids, he's a professional cricketer and he asked me out when I was in year I met this boy in the new school that I had started in year He was strong, tall and decent looking guy. We met in the. Will he regret losing me? That's the most frequent question every woman asks herself after ending a relationship. In fact, some of us don't even ask ourself, we take that question and turn it into a vow. We swear to God that he WILL regret losing us. Well, that's anger and hurt talking. That's not exactly what we feel at that moment.
Hi, I just broke up and moved out yesterday. So we started our relationship 2 and half year ago. He said to me we should break up and not wasting our time even i am a good woman and a wife material but because of my pasthe feels that i will embarrassing him if he gonna tell his family about me. So, time passes, we keep pulling around, till few months ago he brought up this matter again and asked me to leave.
He said i will have better future without him because he is just a refugee visa in Aus. As he is a narcissist, all the time he only thinks about him he not care about my feeling, my need. Even i know our relationship is not healthybut i tried my best to make him a better person better lifemake our relationship work onappreciate every single day while i can still see him touch him joke with himlove him unconditionally without blaming or asking anything from himforgive him for being rude and uneven treated to me.
I did all my best to be a perfect gf but he chosen to let go of me. Should i just let him go? Move on? What should i do? Hi May, so if you want your ex back then I would suggest that you start the program and focus on the Holy Trinity information first, and then plan your texts.
If after your No Contact period of 45 days is over and you think you are not too sure if you want him back anymore then I would extend it. You mention he is a narcissist, so keep that in mind during your time healing and focusing on yourself as these people are not easy to be in relationships with.
I loved him more than anything, took him traveling, took him to many places and restaurants, and overall a really beautiful experience. I just think he got overwhelmed with how invested I was in the relationship and him.
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What do you think? Will he be regretting it? Hi Israel, so by the sounds of things you are in a good place and have emotional control so that is a positive. If you want your ex to regret losing you and possibly come back to you then you need to make sure that you are reading the Ungettable posts and applying this to your life.
Nov 29, From what she posted, actually. She wasn't that into him. If he really wanted to be with her, he'd still be in the picture. Believe me, men go after what they want. If he's not seeking her out, or pursuing her, he's most likely with someone else by now. According to her it's been years.
Use social media to show how great you are and how positive your life is. If you have mutual friends be sure not to talk to them about him, focus on talking about interesting and fun things with them, so they can feed information back to your ex about how great you are doing. Hi, So I was with my boyfriend for two years and a half. We did distance for a year and then we lived together for a year.
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I had to come back home for a family health issue. Our relationship was so real and amazing the whole time he always said he really saw himself with me and never felt this way before. He distanced himself during the time I had come back home. He then started to ask for space and time.
He came to visit me and it was such an amazing time and then later again he asked for real time apart. Hi Katherine so I would say that he had the grass is greener syndrome and took his time about deciding. If you want your ex back then complete a 45 day no contact and then implement the being there method.
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This information is on this website and there are videos on Chris YouTube channel too. It was totally out of the blue and just after my 30th birthday. When I collected my stuff it was slightly tense and sad but I ended up talking to him for about 4 hours and we reflected. Anyway I decided no contact since the 9th March when I picked up my stuff as we had communicated about stuff before then was that right or should it have been from the date of official brake up even though we messaged about stuff?
He left me a voicemail which was accusing me of not answering and being online because I was sleeping with someone else I mean I was home and he woke me up I was so hurt by his messages but presumed this was a good sign that he was loosing it over the lack of control! I expected more of him.
But then sends me nasty texts and voicemails accusing me when he broke up with me!! But after sats behaviour I believe he needs to come to me first plus in no contact.
Basically did I start no contact at the right time or should I take it from date of brake up not date of stuff taken and what should I think or do about these drunken nasty texts and voicemail? I know in my gut he may come back. I know everyone around him is shocked and surprised by him breaking up with me and literally have no idea why. Hi there, so I would watch the actions rather than his words.
People say a lot of things when they are emotional. Good and bad. Make sure that you have completed 30 days of No contact before speaking with your ex again and make sure that you are working the Holy Trinity and the Ungettable information so that you are working towards the best for yourself. Hello, After two years, my bf moved out while I was at work.
I did the whole blow up via txt and told him off to where now he thinks our relationship was toxic for arguing. He says he is exhausted and enjoys his freedom. My question is, did I ruin the chances of the 30 day no contact working in my favor? Hi Noel so you need to start a No contact but you are going to have to go 45 days now not 30 as you have gnatted your ex. I was dating my ex long distance for six months and he broke up with me a week ago after we had a great weekend together and were super close.
I really thought we were great together even though he had a generally distant vibe he is a bit of a dismissive avoidant. I had told him I love him that weekend it just came out.
Will he regret it and come back? Hi Daria, so from what you have said it sounds like you need to show him you are not a doormat to be walked all over and used because you are nice. Read the posts about being Ungettable and learn to apply that information for your own lifestyles and ways. Hey, so my boyfriend broke up with me two. The past month has been reckless and he kept being cold to me when I tried to he the best girlfriend ever.
Turns out he already found someone new and started going out with her. But, will that even happened after both of him and the girl showed that they can love each other even after hurting me? Will he ever comeback to me? Will he regret it? Or Will he continue to ignore me? Can you help me on how to keep my head up if I saw them together as well? Hi Tori, so one thing you need to stop doing is blaming yourself that he ended things with you.
Loving him enough was not going to make him stick around! It was because he was looking else where grass is greener So complete a No Contact period where you focus on yourself and work on your self esteem, and then if he is still with the new girl and you want to get back with him you can start following the being there method.
Now we have been together 1year and 3 months. Last time i did the NC for three weeks and he had to run to get to me. I got him back but he broke up with me a second time for the same reason.
I think he has issues to commit for sure but I know he is making a mistake.