Copyright Singapore Press Holdings Ltd. Regn No E. All rights reserved. His first relationship with an older woman was a lark. But by the 10th, it had become an easy pattern to fall into.
My wife and I met at the Y and started dating when she was fresh out of HS and I was fresh off the mish. We really liked each other but because she was so young we took things slowly and didn't want to rush into the marriage thing. After we'd been dating for about a year without a wedding date I guess people started to figure she was fair game because they started pulling some sneaky stuff.
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Her older brother was working for some big shot millionaire. He lived with this guy's son while they both went to UVSC. It was no secret the son was into my future wife. Anyway, one day her brother calls her up and says that this rich boss guy wants to take the two of them future wife and future BIL to dinner with his family.
I knew they were up to something but what could I do? So it turns out that BIL had to bail at the last minute so it was just Rich guy, rich guy's wife, rich guy's son, and my wife.
Anyway the rich guy's son was ugly and lazy so I didn't really worry, but it was still pretty underhanded. Also after we had been dating about a year and a half my future wife's uncle keeps bugging her about how he wanted to set her up with this kid that works for him.
He bugs her about it every time she sees him until finally she says she'll meet the guy. She talked to me about it and I said I was fine with it because I knew how pushy this uncle could be.
I was pretty insulted that her uncle would do that to me we knew each other from family parties she'd taken me to and such. Turns out he is a pretty good friend from my mission. But the night before my flight, Jessica asked to see me.
When I met her, she passed me an envelope, asking me to open it only when she had left. She told me to have fun in Europe. I called her up, asking what the money was for. She told me to keep the money in case of an emergency, as I was travelling on a shoestring budget.
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I never used the money and I transferred it back to her after my trip. Looking back, she was an amazing person. Besides being successful and confident, she was also warm, kind and sincere. And even though things were mostly physical, I learnt a lot from her self-assured way of life.
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My relationship with Jessica sparked a change in me. Being with older women quickly became something I enjoyed. My cougar magnet days had begun. There was the divorced friend of a former tutor, two doctors I met in the US while on a university exchange programme, a corporate high-flier - these are just a few. All of them were more than eight years older than me. My wildest encounter was with the doctors in the US.
I met two of them on a night out and ended up sleeping with both the same night.
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Among all these women, Jessica was the exception - we were a couple in everything but name. With the other women, it was mostly physical. Some were one-night stands, and almost all the women made the first move.
I don't see myself dating a cougar again. Here are my lessons learned: Most (Not all) Cougars don't see a cub as LTR partner. Cougars do very little in terms of communication but doesn't mean they're not interested. Always make things clear in the initial stages of the relationship - If it's LTR, Marriage or FWB - Always know the exit strategy. Turns out he is a pretty good friend from my mission. I totally knew the guy. He was dating someone else at the time too and had been completely bullied into the date by his boss. They came by my work so that we could all have a good laugh. Now we are married and have a kid but I still don't really like that uncle. dude there's something about cougars or milfs. I don't know what it is but I'm drawn to them. I love those bitches. lol i started having a thing for attractive older women when I was about 12, but I didn't f*** one until I was she was my then gfs mom, and she was hot as f***ing hell. she was half filipino, half white, she had perfect t*ts, like a small C or B cup. she had this perfectly.
My friends, who used to taunt me about my secret relationships, were left with their mouths agape. But they often have had no time for love, and some had recently ended relationships when we met.
And they also wanted no-questions-asked sex.
The simplest explanation I can offer: these women seek a non-judgmental guy willing to show them a good time without any strings attached. No boyfriend or a husband in the mix, nor a girlfriend on my end. My latest squeeze, Rebecca, is a successful healthcare executive in her early 30s.
We met a year ago and she is a prime example of the type of confident cougar that I easily reel in. I first saw her at a fancy hotel bar which has the reputation of being flush with social escorts.
I noticed her immediately, no thanks to her sexy red dress. When she came up to my table and started chatting, I immediately put my guard up - more so when she asked me to dance.
Smitten by her brazenness, I spent the rest of the night trying to get her to dance with me. We eventually exchanged numbers.
Come over now. When I got there, she had a bottle of champagne waiting. She said she just felt like having a staycation.
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Yes, we definitely stayed in that night. She sent me a text a few weeks ago that was uncharacteristically needy - asking why I never asked about her day. Though she texted me soon after, telling me to ignore the message and that she had been drunk, things have been slightly weird since.
This story was originally published in the February issue of Her World.
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Oct 10, The cougar dating scene is definitely on the rise and though many cougar experiences are based around something more short-term and fun as described in this story, it's also surprising to know how many long-term relationships have developed between younger men and older women. Apr 05, Dating him is what finally convinced me this cougar business is a load of crap. If men don't have to worry about being slapped with a dumb label for dating intergenerationally, neither will I. Apr 27, My cougar magnet days had begun. After Jessica, I've been with nine other older women over the last four years. There was the divorced friend of a former tutor, two doctors I met in the US while on a university exchange programme, a corporate high-flier - these are just a few.