I like how you put this qualifier in there " as long as its not simply because he's lazy and won't get a job. Being broke and being lazy are 2 completely different things. I know a few millionaires that are complete lazy slobs, in fact that's WHY they are lazy. From dating hundreds of women and sleeping with even more, most of them do not have the mindset that you do. You are in the minority. In fact in dealing with tons of women, they feel that when a man spends money on them it makes them feel like a "woman".
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Outcall call girl businesses distribute advertising handouts to home and apartment mailboxes, telephone boothspublic toilets and the like in big cities in Japan. There are also numerous websites to find these businesses or other similar businesses. Fashion-health clubs can be found in all large cities in Japan and are easy to spot because of their bright flashing lights and garish decor. Often advertised as "health clubs", they may confuse foreigners unfamiliar with the activities inside.
These clubs usually post pictures of their so-called masseuses near the entrance; however, sometimes faces and eyes are censored with pixellation or black strips. Some club entrances feature caricatured depictions of the services provided.
They differ in that image clubs are themed along popular sexual fantasies such as an office, a doctor's surgery, a classroom, or a train carriage. The workers themselves, whose activities are usually limited to oral sex, wear exaggerated costumes appropriate to the setting and the desire of the customer. Image clubs may offer itemized pricing for particular services such as taking instant photographs, removing a woman's underwear or taking it home.
Pink salons skirt laws against prostitution by serving food, operating without showers or private rooms, and limiting the services provided to fellatio. They exist all over Japan and women who work in them may service a dozen or more men per shift. There are various kinds of soaplands, and they are usually located in complexes with varying numbers of soaplands. Well-known complexes are located in Susukino in SapporoYoshiwara and Kabukicho in TokyoKawasakiKanazuen in GifuOgoto in Shigaand Fukuhara in KobeSagaminumata in Odawaraand Nakasu in Fukuokabut there are many other areas, especially in onsen "hot springs" towns.
Although any sex between 'unspecified persons' is prohibited, it is not between 'specified persons' acquaintances. The customers pay an entry fee to 'use the bathing facilities' and a separate fee to the masseuse. Whilst the massage takes place, the two become 'acquainted' so any paid sexual services that follow are not viewed as prostitution as defined by the law. This interpretation of the law has been in use since the s. Soaplands began when explicit prostitution in Japan became illegal inas a simple form of bath where women washed men's bodies.
They were originally known as toruko-buromeaning Turkish bath. It is a form of frottage performed by a female sex worker upon a male client. The sex worker rubs the client's penis with her thighs intercrural sex and labia majora. But the thing was, that nearly every guy in the club wanted to be with her, and every guy was getting shot down, except me. So I was drawn to her, but only because I wanted to show the other men how it was done.
Yeah, I already corrected myself as far as reading your comment wrong. OR people who get things without effort" - this is also a contradiction to your original argument.
You said you don't want to "work" for or earn sex, but then you say people don't value something if they don't have to work for it? Which is it, do you want to work for sex or do you want it to be given to you? Regardless of how low your standards are. So like I said before that's why there is no double standard. There are some things that you have to put up with in a relationship in order to connect with another person socially and romaticaly.
Courtship in general is one big game, and its certainly worth it in every way if it ends up in love. I already made that clear with my video game metaphor. Perhaps the 3 bears story about the porridge and the beds might be a better one. This is not a black and white issue, its not about giving away or having to work your ass off. And its not a contradiction, you simply don't understand the message.
Ill never change my tune or say anything contrary to my original stance. It seems like there's an awful thin line between "giving away" and "having to work your ass off" for you. Prostitution is a guarantee. Men get their primary motivator "somewhat" fulfilled.
Men's primary motivation for pair bonding is great sex. Which unfortunately only comes with a long term relationship and love. The best and greatest sex comes only comes with that. Prostitution is only a better option because it at least insures that one need is somewhat fulfilled.
With dating there are no guarantees. In fact most of the time it goes bad. Going out on 3 dates IS too much work when you are comparing prostitution and dating. Obviously we don't "Want" to pay for sex. Nope, your only partially correct. Both your mom and the resturant have one thing in common, your mom doenst go Your not getting fed tonight. And the restaruant doesn't do that either. How would you feel if you paid before your meal and they told you to leave without getting your money back OR eating.
So there's no comparison. Refer to my first example. Most people don't care about the person your dating either. How much do you care about the person whom you don't really know? Women talk and women in general have big mouths, it doesn't take a professional job as a whore to give you that. And by the way women have bigger mouths than men in general too, they talk about sex and other crap WAYYYY more than men.
SO that argument is pointless. Well yeah my logic is flawed cause I was using your logic. So using that same way of arguing, I can say a man secretly wants to pay for sex so that's why he buys women things.
The comparison doesn't work because you keep insisting that sex is the only thing men want in exchange for money. If that's how your mind is, then yes, the comparison doesn't work.
But most men. Do want companionship, a friend, a partner AND sex. You may only want sex but not everyone is like you. You're first example isn't applicable to this point. Wait, according to you, people who date have the same amount of disrespect as a woman who is being paid for sex by a stranger? IF women did not want money for sex, than why is it no woman will date a bum or a man with no money at all? When a man will? Why would anyone pay for something when they could get it for free, men are not stupid, even though you obviously think so.
I'm not insisting that at all. I'm insisting that with a prostitution there's a guarantee, and with dating there isnt. Yes it is. According to you, you spin things falsely in order to win an argument. That is obviously not what that context is about. ITs not about "disrespect" its about not knowing anything. They are strangers. Yes, ill say it again, they could be axe murderers Wow.
What I'm more curious about is your opinion on the whole issue cause I'm a little confused about that. In your original post it seems like you are saying men only want sex which would make sense in the dating vs. When people say that men want more than sex, you acknowledge that's true.
So I'm confused on why you think prostitution is a good alternative to dating when they offer two different things.
I understand what you are saying about the guarantee of sex and it being cheaper in the long run but if a man doesn't just want sex but also emotional connection and love like you said, why do you still think he should do to a prostitute when what she is selling isn't the only thing he wants? Most dates end with the man losing money and going home alone with nothing to show for it.
There is no denying that fact. Most "dates" with a prostitutes don't end in relationships either some do. BUT she's doing at least something to deserve that money, and she's doing it every single time. In BOTH cases there is no emotional connection going on.
There is no love at first sight. Most dates end badly with no emtional connection either. Just because men want that goal doesn't mean we get it. In fact most of the time it never happens. Most of the time there's no emotional connection going on with a prostitute either. But at least he's getting "something" for his money. This is not about relationships vs prostitution. This is dating vs prostitution.
Clearly, being in a sex filled relationship where you don't have to pay for sex is ideal. Then again, men end up paying for sex in other ways, gifts, child support, listening to her insensate nagging, etc.
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Maybe I'm wrong but it seems like your scenario sounds like a blind date with a guy who only wants sex verse prostitution.
If a guy meets a girl online, they talk for a while, he asks her out, there is an emotional connection. The emotional connection changes everything.
And in those cases dating isn't used for sex, it's used as the foundation of a relationship. I think when a guy is just trying to show a girl that he can take care of her.
Of course the end goal is to have sex from both people's perspective but it's just part of who we are. I don't think that ct can be removed from it. I don't know, I see what you are saying but I just think there is too much beauty in things like dating to make it seem like nothing more than legalized prostitution.
I think the guys I have been with have probably spent more money on me, then me on them but I spent more time backing or cooking for them they did for me. But I don't regret doing those things. It's just a way of communicating love, just like sex is. Just cause some people make it ugly doesn't mean it always is.
Its based off an emotoin called LUST. MOST dates are that way. They aren't done through knowing someone for 20 years and then finnally asking them out. Thats not how dating typically goes. Not true. The biggest ways people meet someone requires more than 10 minutes. The 2 biggest are through friends introducing them and online dating.
In prostitution the man gets what he NEEDS, he doesn't "want" her, he needs her sex to satisfy his needs. I seriously doubt that all the men you've dated ended up friends or boyfriends. So that completely and utterly destroys that argument. And women do in fact act like whores, if you consider not a single one of them would date a man with no ambition whatsoever, who also never attained a single penny.
Prostitution is more cost effective and at least you get something out of it, more than you do with dating where statistically most people go their separate ways, and he's out bucks on average. No a man doesn't NEED sex. If a man doesn't have sex, he;s not going to die from it; I also never said he wanted the girl either, it's true he just wants sex.
So you'd have to multiply the cost by the amount of times you go on a date and the amount of times you go to the prostitute which would vary for each customer I'd presume, so you'd need the real numbers for that statement. A man needs sex as much as a woman needs to be loved. Nope, the cost of a prostitute is determined by the hooker.
It can range from FREE to bucks. So the cost isn't that bad. And yes I have the real numbers. Men don't need to have sex, women don't need to be loved. All I'm saying is that despite the cost differences the amount of tangible and intangible gain is nothing compared to a good, loving relationship.
And note that I said good and loving there, no infidelity and hate.
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That is why I still vote for dating :P. Asker It is true no woman would consider dating a man with no job or life plans. Ambition is a vague concept. A man needs to have a future in mind. You don't die without it, like food or water.
If you want "sure thing" sex, it's prostitution. If you want more than simply sex, dating makes more sense. If you don't want to pay for everything, work out a fair dating plan. Maybe some women want a free "date" ride. Any average guy can avoid these kinds of women by talking through a first date to decide on future ones. Interesting how some people lie just to try and win an argument.
Women don't enjoy sex as much as men do, this is provably false. Sex drive is measured by testosterone in both men and women. Its quantifiable. Men clearly have more testosterone than women. They physically can enjoy sex, but clearly its not as much. Learn to read, the cost of the average date is clearly explained. Your average date for most men is going to cost this much money. Some more, some less. Going on quality dates is going to cost you that much.
Anything less than that, your average woman is going to think you're cheap. The studies are out there. So ill go ahead and use your own ridiculous argument against you. Most normal people date with the intention of doing it long term. And most normal people's ideal long term relationship is marriage. Bottom line is that I can overwhelm you with proof that shows men want hot women. And I can overwhelm you with proof that shows women want a man with money. Im sure the women in your life like you for you and not for your money.
I'm sure they would love you even if you were a homeless bum on the street corner. I'm sure you love women who are are over lbs with humps on their backs and facial hair.
Because its what's on the inside. You can throw all the articles you want at me, it doesn't change the face that I'm not lying, my girlfriend is quite attractive, and pays quite frequently and doesn't really care. Then again, it could be because unlike you we both make good money. Enjoy your prostitutes, since your question was loaded from the beginning. Also, I still don't see where you're going with the point on marriage. You're claiming it's bad, but a majority still feel optimistic about it and support it.
Men have more testosterone for other reasons than their sex drive: their musculature, body hair etc. Woman have sex drives as strong as men and enjoy sex as much as men do, otherwise there would be no new humans. And what is this hateful women only care about the money you throw at them.
Who are these women you are talking about? Prostitutes truly only care about the money you're throwing at them. They want to be paid for their work with you. I'm not interested in getting "paid" to date someone. I pay my way. I just don't understand your opinions about women if you have not even been in dating or intimate relationships with them since you are gay.
This seems completely like a misogynistic rant against women. Wow really? I for one want to apologize to all the ladies out there on the behalf of all men this person is obviously VERY young and VERY stupid and I wouldn't be very surprised if he was Soulless. I for one love that I can take a girl out to the movies and enjoy her company these guys obviously don't care about things like that.
Well most prostitution involves mistreatment and humiliation for the woman so I guess if a guy doesn't want a woman mistreating him, he just pays another woman to mistreat her. Nope she's wrong, ever heard of a women called "oprah" she interviewed a bunch of women at the bunny ranch and they explained how they loved their jobs and how NO MAN mistreats them.
So your wrong about that. Prostitution simply is an agreement on both parties, you give me money, I give you sex. Fair, isn't it. I knew you were going to reference the Bunny Ranch, that's why I made the comment about not seeing how the women really are on a documentary. Anyone who works with prostitutes and former prostitutes will tell you there is immense emotional damage done to the women.
They usually have been abused at a young age and have to deal with misunderstands of what men are. They tend to think that whatever a man wants to do to them, regardless of how demeaning, it is OK because that's how men are. It takes. Them a lifetime to get over the trauma of men not wanting them for anything but sex. I really wish you would not use those things as an explain to justify something that truly hurts people involved in it. If you believe it is a victimless "crime" then you haven't seen the women after they give it up.
They wake away from it feeling like they aren't worth anything except what they can give a man sexually. And have hard time developing true relationships because they only expect people to take from.
Marriage, in my country, is a loosely defined institution that is connected to a cloud of ideas involving partnership, romantic love, sex, children, finances, and societal acceptance of the relationship. Maybe because people are confused by flex. Oh well, my point is that prostitution doesn't really do anything but a moment of pure horny rage, so I vote dating as better even if it isn't statistically more cost effective, then again you'd have to figure how many times you go to a prostitute in a certain amount of time vs in how many times you go out in dating for a complete assessment. Dating legal prostitution - If you are a middle-aged man looking to have a good time dating woman half your age, this article is for you. Join the leader in rapport services and find a date today. Join and search! Find a man in my area! Free to join to find a man and meet a woman online who is single and hunt for you.
From them. Women are not men. They do not see sex the same way. It might be a man's dream to be paid for sex but when women are paid for sex develop deep scars even if they can function when they do it. I know to a man it doesn't make sense because it seems like exchanging money for services but I'm telling you, it is not as cut and dry.
Please don't romanticize something that slowly chips away at these women. Say what you want, but on OPRAH that's what they said, And she asked them how they felt and none of them felt that way. SO go ahead and call them liars. Look how sad they are!
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Oprah doesn't work with former prostitutes. What you saw is what they call "publicity". They are trying to plug a show and their business. You can believe all you want that it's all just fun but it leaves these women with a lot of pain. It's very heartbreaking to hear what these women go through.
Legality like in Vegas, only prevents physical problems, like the women being beat by John's or STDs. It does nothing to stop the emotional trauma. Just compare it to how a solider can say he loves his job and then later goes through PTSD because of what he did and saw. Just because "you" have a problem with it, doesn't mean they do. Not everyone thinks like you. I could make up that same thing about anything. Like winning the lottery. But really all that money just ends up giving them a lot of pain.
Well of course not everyone thinks how I do. The only reason I know how former prostitutes feel is from hearing them talk about it in person. I wouldn't say I think it causes them pain if I didn't hear them say that. And I actually think a lot of people do have problems after the lottery. I saw something on E! Unfortuantly, in general the dating scene in the current US is presty much a variation on prostitution.
It's all the bad things you say. Good comments, his angel. There's no reason for people to call you names like this guy has done! Question asker you are an Ignorant whore Do you know how many poor girls get trafficked every year?
North America is full of Asian and latin prostitutes. China is Full of Thai and Russian girls. There are also many africans from Somali, Nigeria and Kenya mostly. Russia is full of domestic girls and Africans In every country there are tonnes of domestic prostitutes who were drugged and forced into it. The problem with you is that you are showing the example of the worst possible examples of prostitution.
I can do that too. Ill just bring up the worst possible example of dates. DId you know that some dates actually end in murder? And sometimes the woman actually murders the man!
Therefore dating is far worse! In both cases, it? If you women would stop being so demanding and actually be more obvious when you wanna have sex, more men would be into? Carrotman of course a real woman is superior to a prostitute But if you are talking about judging their heart, only God had that power.
And I really care about a womans personality too. And I think that men who think fat women are gross are appalling. And I i hate men who objectify women, after all they are human beings god dammit. Im not interested in sex either, I'm going to wait until marriage, I'm just saving myself for the right girl you know.
And men and women are equals!! I just threw up in my mouth. Btw guys that talk like this are nice guys who never get laid, and its obvious he's never had pussy. And I could have sex with a couple girls at the moment but I don't feel like it so you saying I don't get laid is horribly wrong. Someone who can't read is pretty pathetic. BTW I mentioned I was gay along time ago. I don't think male whore houses even exist.
That's one great thing about being gay, men just put out whenever you want. The kind of man that spits this kind of garbage doesn't get laid. So ill just call you a liar.
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This guy is obviously a troll. Because losers with no girlfriends that talk like this, the interent is their best friend. Im going to have to block you. I don't talk to losers. QA, You're the one replacing dating with prostitutes. I think it's pretty unanimous that you're the loser here. Even though he might be underage, I'd far sooner sleep with him than a douchebag like you. I'd be willing to wait till e was ready. You must be so lonely I think if you can guarantee emotional attachment with every women you dated, then you would have a point.
With prostitution you get the guarantee of mindless sex. Oh this made me laugh because it reminded me of a quote from Boondocks. Riley was talking to his grandad, because the g-dad has a new girlfriend and didn't know she was an actual prostitute. So Riley says: "You pay for her dinner right? She a hoe!
Why can't you just give her the same amount of money you would've for dinner and let that bitch buy herself some groceries instead!?
This is only true if the only thing you want from a woman is sex. Otherwise, paying for a date isn't paying for sex, it's paying to do an activity with someoneto spend time with them and get to know them.
Also, sex is not just a "reward" for the guy, it's a rewarding experience for both people. Sex is something that is shared, not given. Both people are giving and receiving pleasure from the experience.
Men could care less about you or your personality. You probably dreamed of being a little princess when you were little and you never grew up. So now I need to pay to get to know someone? Hot diggity, I can't wait to get my next paycheck to make a new friend! That being said, to the asker: you go to the prostitutes, I'll go find myself someone to love who doesn't require that I pay for everything we do. Win-win for everyone. Good luck in finding that khell That's what most men want, including myself.
A good woman is hard to find. So all men are just sex fiends who only want women for sex and not to get to know us as people? That last word was a typo by the way. Seriously though question asker, be honest with yourself. You aren't looking for a "good woman," you are just looking for easy sex. You made that clear by actually comparing prostitution as an alternative to dating. Obviously prostitution provides you with easy sex.
If you wanted more than that which you don't that wouldn't even be an option for you. That's fine. Its your choice but don't pretend you're looking for anything more than sex. Man up to the truth. Seriously though, be honest with yourself, you aren't looking for a good man, you are just looking for easy money.
You made that clear by complaining and putting words in peoples mouths. Stop lying. MOST people don't like each other and continue dating the person. For MOST people, that's what happens.
Not everyone doesn't marry a prostitute, SOME people actually get married to a prostitute they have sex with.
For some people THAT is the purpose. Your examples are equally stupid. Where do YOUR 'most people' live? Hey buddy. I'm not judging. I never daid you had a problem. If you don't know that is a FACT then something is seriously wrong with your brain. Im not mad I just think your retarded. I mean who the hell doesn't know that.
Who calls learning disabled people names- unless they are themselves angry or 'learning disabled'? By your words "retarded". That's a straw man argument. Just because I hate terrorists, makes myself a terrorist. Just because I hate hitler, makes me a nazi. I hope you realize someday to never use that argument again, because its pointless and stupid. OR "retarded. Its funny too, since you are terrible at debating. Instead of answering or arguing a point on the other side, you simply deflect it by attacking the other person.
Not only that, you deflect it by attacking using insults that are straw men themselves. Rather humorous, common, and ignorant. Sorry I offended you. I should not have gotten personal- it was an accident - I'm done talking to youI lost interest as soon as started speaking in platitudes. What do you care what people think! Go ahead. You know what's worse than someone bring unoriginal or "flat"?
Someone who instead, speaks in pejoratives, rather than platitudes. And that's you. So go ahead and label it that way. Go ahead and be "unoriginal" and label my statements that way. Pot calls kettle.
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Now, I'm going to ignore all of your statments that aren't relative anymore. And bring up my strongest argument. Do MOST people again this is not relative, this is absolute and I dare you to prove it otherwise Do MOST people who go on first dates end up marrying or continue dating the same person?
Do MOST? And be aware if you say "no" than it completely, and utterly shoots down your entire original argument. People who bring up the exceptions to the rule in any argument are naive and ignorant, and obviously don't know how to debate.
Plus it simply makes you look dumb. They have this retarded attitude and they think that Merely by bringing up the exception to the rule it proves them wrong. Lol I think you should find some martial art or meditation program I was just suggesting,since many people including myself. Dating experience to be the actual getting to kow the person,which is not limited to the 'biblical sense'.
If I just wanted sex- I definitely don't have to go on a date to get it. A date to me is to meet a person- not their genitals:. Im going to ignore everything you just said and repeat my strongest point.
Since you like to ignore everything that shoots down your original stance. Got to love copy and paste. Lol I am not eve on planning to get married- I meet people for the experience of getting to know them. Clearly I am not the one you want to talk to about this. I don't see the relevance of what sex has to do with making a date worth your effort.
You still won't answer it.