What do you say about the reverse? I mean, I can see why an older man would want to date a younger woman - physically that is, but why would a year-old woman want to date a man 45 or more? I can totally understand why older men go for younger women. Time creates wisdom - but it also creates responsibilities and complications - mortgage, kids, career, etc. All of this makes dating more and more complex as we get older.
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User Name. Remember Me. Advanced Search. View detailed profile Advanced or search site with. Page 1 of Advertisements Hi all, I have a girlfriend who was telling me that she met a nice young man but she does not want to have a relationship because she thinks he is too young for her.
Location: NY 9, posts, read 15, times Reputation: Quote: Originally Posted by Checkered24 The age difference is just a number.
Quote: Originally Posted by Sweet Like Sugar I think that older men can leave just as quickly as younger men, so she should date him if she wants to. Location: Canada 9, posts, read 8, times Reputation: Location: The cupboard under the sink 3, posts, read 7, times Reputation: Quote: Originally Posted by bicoastal10 The second she starts to slow down in the bedroom or starts losing her looks, he'll start looking elsewhere.
Thanks for the interesting read. Now we are both retired and we are closer than ever. My own dad was affectionate with his 3 daughters but it was clear that my mom was his girl. That is what I got. My ex left me for a 22 year md singer and dancer. He was I was shocked that he he married her.
She had nothing to give him. She took my home belongings, had an Invitro baby. I never had closure. May she have the dump of her life. Why are you mad at her and not him? The sense of entitlement this woman displayed was truly unbelievable. But noooo. The Other Woman to whom he could have lied to get her into bed is at fault. Ladies, sure get mad at the woman, too. The other woman is irrelevant to your anger. If this simple logic is not something you gals can get your arms around, no wonder there is so much dysfunction once a woman gets into a relationship.
Karmic: WOW is right. When did I ever say otherwise? Frankly, I blame both of them for their actions. Two people made a choice to betray their spouses and destroy two families. Now both have paid the price for that choice. She is now a single mother with no support and he wants to come home to me but that door is permanently closed. Those are some pretty snide assumptions you are making there, especially considering that I never said anything you could base those on in my comment.
She knew me and our young children. Our kids played together for crying out loud. She is a Narcissistic Gold Digger so, no, she was not some innocent victim that my husband lied to. I like your posts. Most women on this board vilify uncommitted men commitment phobes, man-children, narcissists, etc.
The anger seems so disproportionate to the offender. So you took it upon yourself to inform us of how very deluded we all are without any background information. I could pluck all kinds of things out of the ether and sound off on you for neglecting to mention them. Now see how silly that sounds? Ditto for the rest of us. If you actually care how we feel about something just ask before you criticize, unless criticizing is really all you wanted to do in the first place.
Alex. Selena, great to hear you feel that way. Helps with my heart ache. And yes, I agree, Harrison Ford is the exception.:). And I think I have come to the conclusion, I rather stick to my age jankossencontemporary.com I am 50, I won't be dating a man in his 30s but I can now. Apr 09, If you're looking to make a broader connection with, say, someone over 40, newly dating after divorce, a single parent, simply want to have a virtual game night date with someone new, or are hoping for a relationship, these online dating apps (some, even free) cover all the bases. 1. Match. Apple, Android. DOWNLOAD NOW. I am a 42 year old man dating a 25 year old woman. Never bee I am a 42 year old man dating a 25 year old woman. Never been married and no children. I am 37 dating a 25 year old girl. It was a total fluke I met her at all. I was in a bar having a beer with a buddy and he left to go hit on the bartender at another place at 3pm in the.
Please show me where I said that all men must commit to a woman. Forgive me for not expounding upon the topic to your satisfaction. Only to vilify the other woman, when the MAN - who was in the relationship with you - should be one vilified. All three of you only mentioned all the details after I challenged what was written. Oh, I vilified him in spades. Was I under some obligation to tell you every tiny detail right off the bat?
Do you get to dictate what we share publicly and when? I took out the majority though admitted not all of my anger on HIM. There is no emotional investment in the woman. She is not someone the wife has a deep attachment to, therefore, it is easier to forgive the guy and blame the outside enemy. Not condoning it, just considering why it might happen.
You felt the relevant details was to name call the woman. I would have commented differently had you and Stephan and Sharon wrote with as much anger towards the man as towards the woman. Duh we can drop this now, right? Have fun. Mine left me for a younger woman as well, after putting us all through total hell for two decades with his drug addiction.
That puts a whole different spin on things. A man in his 40s or 50s is likely either married or divorced. Dude goes through a mid life crisis, leaves wife and kids for a younger POA who makes him feel all youthful again. Too late sucker. No take backs! He stuck with her anyway for a while to avoid being alone but he did eventually dump her. I have to admit that it makes me quite happy to see that SHE is now a single mother too because she left her husband to steal mine.
Karma is a beautiful thing! Walk a mile Derek, then come back and lecture me on my morality. My husband left me after 20 years of marriage to be with a 22 year oldHe is 57 years old. The longest, best romantic relationship I ever had was with a much older guy. All that said, we were very much in love and it felt like we were equals. I know that people looked at us and thought things - esp. Well, not rank. And, it turns out, in our lives. But we never talked about that stuff - we were just into each other and our work together.
But it also feels like peace and happiness. I do know many successful May-December couples. The woman is most often the younger, but not always. Gotta get off the internet. My eHarmony guy is gonna call in a few.
Not as exciting as Award Man, but very funny, nice. Older guys: higher social value. I totally buy younger women going for older men. See it all the time. They only plan on being together for 15 years, give or take. Basically a really long LTR or a planned mid-term marriage. Does anyone have a problem with this? He gets what he wants fantasies fulfilled, feels younger, arm candy, whateverand she gets what she wants that is, a comfortable life.
Lance, the only problem is at 60, the old guy will not let the 43 year old go. Can she, yes she can but she has to be wise. I am 53 and am on friendly terms with several women in their 40s, who are keenly looking for someone to settle down with. BUT there are plenty of women, desperately lonely, and will do almost everything to have someone love and care for them. There are many more 40 year old women than there are 40 year old men. In person as well as online.
I have dated ages both ways. Someone who most people know of, Sandra Bullock, has just been voted most beautiful woman in the world in some poll and she is a beauty at 51, and another familiar face, Christie Brinkley is a total knockout at 61, but there are plenty of beauties of that age on match etc.
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They have lots of experience and many good years ahead of them. I was married for 23 yrs before i found out my wife was cheating, I got divorced, then I met her, her family loves me. You want a young woman she wants a young man too. The younger men just want sex. You still look good and feel young, but the only men who want a real relationship with you are over Cause the person at a real loveing level alll you love about themyou watch their body age and them struggle to communicate and talk and it killllls you.
Some people actually love the person and the traits that create them and didnt know the age or couldnt tell and then love is there so oh well and too late.
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I think people should be mindful on the younger and understand what you could be taking and be kind enough to say no. And marry your own age or closer and form a relationship to love with someone your own age.
Wish he would have pushed me away a to save aallll this death pain. He could have found someone his age. I love him. KNOW what I would. It was selfish. At 48, Is He willing to remarry for his second or third time and also have kids with you and form a happy family?! In the other side, Is he just using a young woman exploiting her prime youth for companionship but not committing in order to offer her a marriage and kids cause he will be a Grandfather instead.
I briefly - very briefly - dated a 50 year old. He just knocked my socks off. Do THEY jointly plan on being together for 15 years? Or does She? I ask because the VRD can live like Hef cialis, viagra.
The grown-up events are very nice, and not something that a young guy can bring you to. My family background has made me naturally drawn toward older people friends and romantic interests alike. Perhaps the fact that guys closer to my age are finally maturing has something to do with it. And lastly, in regards to the sugar daddy or rich older man phenomeon. Not necessarily the case. Financially though, I suspect I have far more assets.
Though I also know more than a few young ladies with a thing for Sean Connery. I believe she is an animal lover. These days a lot of women are holding onto their hotness.
Prostitution is very quid pro quo, Vino. Would each have the same feelings if he were an old loser and she were a young ugly thing? It is not normal to fall in love with someone who looks like your dad. But if he promises security, you might take him on the offer. I admit you might grow to care for such a person but chances are he chose the inexperienced girl to manipulate.
When she grows up, game over.
Some will even get you working 16 hours straight overnight hours whilst they sleep with their pot bellies hanging out. What does SHE offer? What other ways? Deathslayer writes yet another priceless post. A choice quote or 2, so people can link over. You could have said, learn to play pool, take him to a sports game, or boating.
There were a ton of things you could have done to be with your man and make him happy. But the only way all you women could define yourselves was as three holes and nothing else. You are right. They are not that stupid. They just accept it as the cost of admission, like paying a membership fee to join a country club or a cover charge to enter a night club. Older women appreciate younger men for the same reasons older men appreciate younger women.
Younger men are more likely to have a flat stomach and all their hair. Perhaps to get back to that time of life when sex and relationships were merely sport and conquests? At any age. Is there an entertainment star you admire or did as a teen who is 12 or more yrs. If so, it might amuse you in the coming decades to see how well THEY age.
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How would being divorced with a kid appeal to younger women who are neither divorced nor have a kid? My husband was divorced with a kid when I met him.
Love knows no stopping- I loved his little girl like the continuation of him. Selena Apr 8th at am 17 some men over 40 are quite rigid in their expectations and some of them are so bitter you wonder why they are dating in the first place.
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May 20, I was 24 when I met a year-old. We were both recently divorced. Yeah I got married at a young age. We connected on so many levels, but the reality was that eventually I knew I wanted to have a family. She had a year-old daughter, and after.
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I got an email from my sister the other day. He makes me feel special, goes out of his way for me, doesn't keep me guessing about whether I'll hear from him, gives me his full attention.
I went from being unsure and inexperienced to having a great boyfriend who adores me and treats me really well and is now actively thinking and talking about marriage and kids. Share Join our conversation 1, Comments. Selena, great to hear you feel that way. I have to disagree with the statement about sex with men over 45 sucks.
Calm down its ok. Thank you for sharing. I met a gentleman who is 58 and I am You story touched my heart. Very sweet Ashley!!! Hi I wish I could have your attitude. How was it or is it? I love Harrison Ford! And Tommy Lee Jones!! What older man would you find attractive? Studies I have read support a maximum 6 years either way being workable. Amen, sister. So the reality just needs to be accepted.
And it is reality. Awesome post. Well said, my friend! But maybe because he is older hello loraine. Work on staying happy and improving your health and quality of life. Hello LorraineHang in there, and if you love this man, stick with it. Good luck with your decision YesI echo your thoughts. I get married to SHARE my life and life experiences To do alonesky diving hiking kyacking Then ill be widow at an older age and die with out that grow old togther cause he already died quite a bit before I was close to aging in.
Just to loose your true love so quick I was a cna geriatrics and am concerned of our future to where he married his future caretaker and ill be left screwed with angry underpaid. Ive seen sooo many mourn the death of spousesand now I get to out live by 20 thats honestly a lot but not at all, to restart a relationship, life and identify and the quality of life in those later years my goodness.
Just to loose your true love so quick I was a cna geriatrics and am concerned of our future to where he married his future caretaker and ill be left screwed. Personally, Do allllll the younger people a favor thats more than years difference.
I wish he would. Ghost of Mrs more, Didnt spell. Oh boy is this one interesting. Right will look like. Meaning you're not going to waste your time on guys who don't fit the bill.
No wonder that an increasing amount of the over 40 dating scene is moving online, with between more over 40s taking to dating sites and dating apps for the first time over the past couple of years. It's becoming such an essential tool for dating in your 40s - allowing compatible single men and women to connect directly - all you have to decide is which site suits you best. May 12, I am 22 years old and I am dating a 40 year old. He is separated from his wife and is planning to get a divorce. We've been together for over 6 months, and I really am in love with him. My family doesn't know anything about it. I am afraid of what they will think about the age difference and also that he has been married 2 times already. Aug 02, She may look decent at 40, but when she turns 50 and he's only 35 (and has the option to date women as young as ), he'll likely .
Do you have a career you're obsessed with? Do we have similar hobbies or interest?
Please, I have other things to do then to sit around all day wondering why he never texted me back. Make like a ghost and leave. This is probably the best thing that'll ever happen to you because you can go about your life living your unapologetic, authentic self. When you stop comparing yourself to your friends, you'll be so feel happier and free, and have way less negativity in your life.
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