Ok I know everybody on here is going to criticize me for this but I am dating my cousin. I like her a lot! Is it wrong to be dating her? And one more question, if we had sex, would the baby have defects? If you look at the hill people in places where they inbreed you can see the level of intelligence is lower.
I'm dating my cousin!?
There is this beautiful boy who I think as I crush on me but for one, I'm not sure and second, I'm his cousin's best friend After my last relationship, I'm still trying to figure out what went wrong and what is it that I don't like about the person who I'm dating.
My main problem is that I'm scare of hurting someone, and having a great tie between my best friend and I broken.
I'm also scared that my best friend will think it is weird and her opinion really matters to me. On top of that, I'm not even sure that we would be a good match considering that he does a lot of things that I do not like ex. He has dropped hints before that he likes me but when I check his myspace, he has a bunch of girls talking to him.
Jan 16, Being in a relationship with your friend's cousin can be complicated but not even for once, think that it is wrong. If you really value the friendship you have with your friend then many questions must be arising in your mind, its natural. You mus. Aug 20, "When I dated my best friend's cousin, once everyone got over the initial awkwardness, we all started hanging and doing things jankossencontemporary.com actually ended up bringing us all closer together Author: Macey Hall. Jun 20, There might not be any risks for the mother other than the usual ones that mothers experience, but there definitely are many risks for the baby born to first cousins. The risk of genetic defects is higher: a percent chance of having a defect, whereas with a non-related couple, there is only a percent jankossencontemporary.com there is a defect that.
If we ever did get together, I would wonder if he would be faithful, and even if he was, would I feel lonely when he hung out with the other girls.
Basically, I'm just a wreak.
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Dating My Best Friend's Cousin? Are we a match?
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Jan 12, I left you guys hanging at the end of last video here you go. I told my best friend i love her so this is where that puts us now. -THANKS FOR WATCHING Y'ALL- Share this video https://youtu Author: Ryan and Danielle. Sep 08, I am dating my cousin secretly. We both are very much - Answered by a verified Counselor My best friend has been in a relationship for the past four years, I have been dating my girlfriend for almost three years and we both had just graduated from college. Towards the end of the year she asked me to talk about our relationship. A female reader, ingotblue +, writes (7 April ): No its not wrong at all, if it were your cousin you were dating then i would have problems with it, I would say if it is worrying you then just take your cousin to one side and just say that you are dating your cousins mate and you feel that your cousin should know of the status quo.
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There are tests you can take to test for the most common birth defects. This would be before you have the baby. Once there is a baby in the womb you can extract some of the amniotic fluid around the baby and test this for genetic issues.
Imagine the anxiety of know you baby in the womb has XYZ and won't be fully functioning based on the genes. Now you have to decide if you want to allow the pregnancy to proceed.
My suggestion is that if you have sex do it with full protection.
Avoid the creation of a child even more than most of us did in our youth. There might not be any risks for the mother other than the usual ones that mothers experience, but there definitely are many risks for the baby born to first cousins.
The risk of genetic defects is higher: a percent chance of having a defect, whereas with a non-related couple, there is only a percent chance.
If there is a defect that runs in the family, it is more likely to gain dominance by intermarriage.
Not all babies by first cousins will come out with something wrong. Most will come out perfectly healthy but the chances that something will be wrong is higher. It's fine.
My best friend didn't talk to me for a while so she "wouldnt be rude to her cousin" but me and her are the best of friends and he's over with. Just be careful, think it out because if you want a serious boyfriend then you don't want a dude who's gonna be flirting 24/7 behind your back and causing unnecessary harm to you, well good luck! I found out he liked me too and wanted to talk to me and after some months we were dating. At the end of this year I'll move to his city. This was my parents idea and has nothing to do with the fact I'm dating him or something. My dad don't even knows about it. Only my mom, my cousin's parents, his sister, and some other cousins knows about it. Dec 19, Thanks for watching, I'll put my social media bellow Twitter: aubreybeavens Instagram: aubreybeavens.
The muslims do it. There is a very little chance that they would have defects, unless there is a bad recessive gene in the family but the chances of them being abnormal is only a little more than a normal baby.
It is legal to wed your cousin so wheres the problem?
Im dating my cousins best friend
I don't criticise you at all! Its only wrong if you feel its wrong. Since you are cousins due to the closely matched DNA the baby's would have a higher chance of having some sort of defect, so its possible.
Would the baby have- What the literal heck?
Just because you have a baby with your cousin doesn't mean it'll have a defect. To answer your question about baby defects, there are possibilities.